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RANCHO
MIRAGE, Calif., September 27
/Steve Lopez/ -- You
can still smoke in parts of
the Agua Caliente Casino in
Rancho Mirage, a place where
time travels in reverse, sin
is celebrated and inhibition
does not exist. You can light
one cigarette after another
while you gamble away your Social
Security check and miss payments
on the oxygen tank, and it's
nobody's business but your own.
I
found myself suppressing a cough
as I strolled the Marlboro-scented
casino floor looking for somebody
to talk to. The economy is still
on the mat, California gaming
revenue dropped in 2008 for
the first time in more than
a decade and yet the cars still
roll into the lots at Agua Caliente,
Morongo and Pechanga, among
other gambling halls.
So
who are these die-hards?
I
saw a couple at the slots and
made small talk. The woman said
she was an administrator at
Cal State Long Beach, and this
was a furlough day.
The
governor takes away a day of
pay and she goes to a casino?
It
wasn't like that, she said.
She might drop a coin or two
in a slot, but she and her companion,
a campus cop on his day off,
visit the desert every once
in a while just to kill a day,
catch a show, go to dinner.
"We're
not really gamblers," she
said.
I
found a couple of pros, though,
not far away.
Ralph
and Jan, husband and wife, were
smoking and playing slots, and
they told me they knew the gambling
scene inside-out. The San Fernando
Valley couple said they are
semiretired from the catering
business, which means there's
more time to gamble.
Too
much time?
All
I can tell you is they sent
me an e-mail the next day asking
that I not use their last names.
Jan said a "connection
to habitual gambling" won't
help their cause if they go
after new catering contracts
to support their lifestyle,
and I'm going to honor that
request.
Ralph
said he has no doubt business
is down at Agua Caliente and
the Spa Resort in Palm Springs.
Morongo still has a crowd because
of what he called a reputation
for loose slots, but the jackpots
are smaller there, in his opinion.
So
why was he at Agua Caliente?
For the Wednesday night slots
tourney, with a $1,000 cash
prize.
Ralph
and Jan usually stay at the
Spa Resort; that's their favorite
casino because "everybody
knows us there."
But
their friend Sandy, 70, is an
Agua Caliente devotee. A local
resident, she gambles so frequently
and unsuccessfully that all
her food and show tickets are
comped by the Indian casino.
Ralph
and Jan were going to meet Sandy
later for dinner at the Grand
Palms Buffet, where Sandy had
comp tickets for the three of
them, and then they were heading
to the slots tourney.
I
suggested a change of plans:
Agua Caliente has a steakhouse
too, and I figure if you're
going to gamble and smoke all
night, you should start with
a hunk of red meat and get your
protein. When I offered to buy
dinner, Ralph and Jan said fine
and called Sandy to join us
there.
Before
Sandy arrived, Ralph said working
in a pizza parlor and in the
catering business had taken
a toll on his health. No alcohol
for him, he said, because of
his diabetes, and he also has
a pacemaker and implanted defibrillator.
"I'm
on 23 pills a day, none of them
vitamins," Ralph said.
I
didn't have to ask why he still
smokes, or why he was ordering
the large filet: It seems only
natural that a man who makes
his second home in a casino
likes to roll the dice.
When
Sandy showed up, she told me
she once was a publicist in
the L.A. theater scene. But
she left that to join her husband,
Ben, in the auto glass business
in San Dimas.
As
Sandy tells it, Ben "developed
the mobile concept," which
meant "we'll come to you
no matter where you are"
with a windshield, tires, batteries,
whatever you need.
They
sold the business many years
ago and moved into the 5,100-square-foot
Rancho Mirage home of Frank
Sinatra's former bodyguard.
But then, two years ago, Ben
died of cancer, leaving Sandy
alone in the sprawling house
with a 100-pound dog and a hole
in her heart.
"You
probably noticed my missing
teeth," said Sandy, who
shows a lot of gum on the lower
side. While nursing Ben, she
said, she ground those pearly
whites down to nothing with
all her worry and sorrow.
Sandy
said she hasn't hit a decent
jackpot in two years, for all
her trying. She used to ring
the bells more often, back in
the day, but now she's playing
more like Ben, who lost prolifically.
"He
loved poker; I like machines,"
Sandy said.
They'd
drop into Agua Caliente several
times a week and Ben would go
bust at the poker table like
he invented it, but he never
let that ruin his evening.
"At
Ben's funeral, the head of the
poker room gave the eulogy,"
Sandy said. "We were always
treated like family here. Everything
is comped. They roll out the
red carpet when I come in."
I
guess Sandy could see what I
was thinking, because here's
what she said: "I'm not
stupid. I know I pay for it."
And
the price is pretty steep.
Serious
gamblers are given house credit
cards for all their gambling
and other purchases. It goes
from gold to platinum to black
to red for the really big spenders,
Jan explained.
She
and Ralph have black cards,
which means they are dropping
roughly a couple thousand dollars
a month at the Spa Resort. Sandy
holds Agua Caliente's red card.
So
what's she dropping each month?
"Every
bit of five," Sandy said,
meaning $5,000.
I
asked if she thought she had
a problem.
"Am
I addicted?" she asked.
"Of course."
Lots
of seniors are addicted, she
said. You come into the casino
in the middle of the day and
see them with their "wheelchairs,
oxygen tanks, the whole megillah."
But at least Sandy knows why
she does it. "Because I'm
hiding and I'm lonely,"
she said.
With
Ben gone, what can she do but
keep going back to the thing
they shared?
Ralph
and Jan can understand that.
They're thinking of moving from
the Valley to the desert, ignoring
a daughter's plea that they
do something else with their
time and money.
"We're
treated great here," Ralph
said.
"They
treat us like family,"
Jan said.
The
slot tourney, by the way, didn't
work out for anyone in this
trio. They each paid $20 to
bang the "reset" button
for six solid minutes to see
who could rack up the most points
and win the $1,000 prize.
Ralph,
Jan and Sandy didn't come close,
but it didn't matter. They came
back to the restaurant no worse
for the wear, and when dinner
was done, our waitress asked
Sandy if she wanted all four
meals comped. I insisted on
paying, though.
"I
love it here," Sandy said.
"If I'm going to die tomorrow,
I'm going to die at a slot machine." |